IF YOU ACT THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE, SOON YOU WILL BECOME THE WAY YOU ACT!
In life, sometimes its hard to accept when we have created a situation for ourselves. If we are concious of how we are percieved by others, then perhaps we'd think twice about the choices we made in everyday life.
Its simple! If you do not like negative attention then the solution is to not behave in a negative way!
YOU may be aware that you have good intentions but not everyone you come across during the day knows that. People automatically make a judgement about you within the first 7 seconds of meeting you. What does this tell us?
How we carry ourselves in everyday life is VERY important. It's easy to blame others for their view but if you were to put yourself in their position, what is it that you would see of yourself in that moment? Then think to yourself, "How would I like to be seen by others?"
We must always remember, if we dont care about how others see us then we are leaving ourselves open to judgement. If this is the case, should we react badly if someone has made a bad judgement about us that we did not try to deter in the first place?
We create our own destiny! We can either make life easier or harder for ourselves. It's up to us to decide, everyday we wake up, do we want an easy day, or a hard one?
By Lasharne Lionel